MARIANO CABRERO BÁRCENA - From La Coruña, España
We are changing throughout history, cultures and civilizations, so we are seeing, our roles (behavior) comes to sexuality. It undergoes a change concerning the customs and way of expressing itself. The women, and thank God, have learned to be independent and, of course, are demonstrating, for active and passive which are much more intelligent than men, studying, working, being military (remember the death of the soldier Idoia Rodrguez in Bujan land of Afghanistan, defending Spain in a war so difficult and controversial as that of Iraq), police y. .. always get what you want to succeed: They have a huge strength of will, they develop a thousand wonders, as if. .. falling on it drops containing tonics and effective drivers knew that, as a river overflowed, the lead throughout their lives.
That is from pink to yellow, from youth to old age, the vitality of youthful love and passion to a "status" of people ripe ... where it will gradually shutting down the carnal passion burning, and thus , Give way to quiet that love and grateful that people enjoy, that Peine few hair color of snow.
Well, the time has come to understand that women are endowed with memory, understanding and desire, and heart to feel and love the whole world: love what is good and bad too, with this engine that drives the blood called heart. And is that when women kiss ... charm, and we engage our senses, and do everything their hands: What to talk about love when you get!, The kisses are all blandishments. And when you kiss your lips ... I say: Were your hands! Hands female beauty of women. This is the woman who loved, loved, and love forever, but I spoke my mind and I said: "The only memories ...."
There was almost no one. Ran seven in the afternoon, I witnessed the exception of what we tell you, when I was taking a cafeteria, and ojeando magazines matacorazones. " Entered in establishing the daughter of a good friend of mine, for which I feel great affection, he told me: "Do you have five minutes?". "And five thousand," I answered. Nailed his gaze on my eyes, and exclaimed: "I want to be a mother, I need ...!". In my sesera swarm thousand and one questions, and asked him for help-treaty: "Are you pregnant, perhaps?." (The fear is innate in pregnant women, and one understands it, because when they stop experiencing pain , Distress, and, not infrequently, owing to develop a postpartum depression that in many cases does not seem to have any explanation.)
After some time, as soon, he replied: "Far from it !...". She told me that he was leaving with kids, married and single-rate, single and married, "and that" more is not worth talking about their ...". I also explained that his passionate life-law of sexual desire, and the resolve, but his heart amarecía cold, dead with color. This has been our kind and competent woman is a twenty-first century: have talent, writes books, is a teacher of the State ... to be part of social organization by its own merits. My good friend-saving age atheistic is, does not believe in men and less still in love. So I confessed and gave me permission to comment.
In any case, a child is contertulia my brave, wonderful, beautiful and intelligent - who chose their voluntary singleness. That is, the face life away from their parents, being responsible for their own decisions. This lonely and loving woman knows that "love is a flower too precious to cut it" (Chinese proverb) - continued with their confessions friendly. Thus, evicted from his inner fears and apprehensions with loneliness. And he told me over: "I need to (deliver) love someone, I need a 'man' to produce a baby-to-my dreams, but damn AIDS!: With him to stumble around any corner."
It is clear today that there are children educated, and well, by their unwed mothers. Because the fundamental principle of the life of any human being, in my opinion, is without a doubt-: born, live and die. Because living means to dream. Because living means love. Sappho (lesbian), great Greek poet, wrote: "Those lips white, pale and quarters that barely cover my teeth, which are held in the gums; (...) because I keep hoping the sun, I keep hoping the fields ..." .
Given their fears, which are ours-advised: "Look what a man-exist - that respects your body and your soul temper." Explain your project-told-loving, then find that man x. He send you their feelings of admiration, appreciation and gratitude ..., that will leave footprints in perpetual inside your belly. This is our love of solitude that we are creating.
Paradoxes of the end of our century, and real facts of our early twenty-first century: a single child, a single mother too. Erik Erikson maintained that "women are destined to have children." Was wrong, as human beings we are. In truth this girl was begging motherhood. If my daughter, her age, I would have asked for advice, perhaps, my heart lloraría tears of winter, and my larynx articulate one word.
Anyone who loves and respects a woman is loving and respecting the world. Let's not forget, if we spend the night in this valley of tears, we owe it to them. Behind a man is always a woman made. "Women want to be loved without reason, without reason, not because it is good or beautiful or funny or well-educated or spiritual, but because it is" (Amiel, diary II).
In business, public and private, and many women are playing men's own work, but without losing an inch their feminine identity. I must admit that the past are not paid in the same currency so paid to men, but in the first grade had reached the "suum cuique" (to each his own).
Many times, and unfortunately, suffer from the proverbial sexual harassment by their bosses and colleagues, having to leave their jobs rather than submit to satisfy sexual desires, against their will, of unscrupulous and exploited. Denounce these acts to safeguard your sexual freedom.
Mariano Cabrero Bárcena
